Hi there!

Thanks for your interest in Swinglers.

Our parties are specifically kink-centered and inclusive. We focus on creating a friendly, super sex-positive welcoming space for the kinky, sexy and curious of all genders, relationship statuses, body types, orientations, and more.

“How different is a Swingler than a regular night at
THE HOUSE?”

COST

$15 first-timer fee paid at registration

$30 per person paid to The House at the event.

We do not offer couple or gendered pricing. Everyone pays the same, everyone plays the same.

VETTING

Our parties have a very different vibe than your standard swinger event, and we require a different kind of vetting as well. All new Swinglers will need to get registered (every individual must register on their own—we don't do couple registrations).

  • Every Swingler must be approved to attend by one of our hosts/mods.

  • Every Swingler must be vetted by phone or video, if not a member of the Mingler discord server.

Because this is a no-holds-barred party AND we allow singles, these requirements are in place to assure that the overall vibe is right.

JOIN THE DISCORD

Connect with over 2,000 kinky and nonmonogamous people local to RDU!

Access our event exclusive channels, and get on our invite list before the general public!

ON FETLIFE?

Follow us there to RSVP to events, get on our invitation list, and keep up with mixers and community.

https://fetlife.com/The_Mingler

If you enter your phone number, we will use this to contact you—this is incredibly useful for vetting, important details, and more.

I want to receive email or SMS notifications, alerts & occasional marketing communications (like mixer and party details) from Mingler. Message frequency varies. Message & data rates may apply. Text HELP to 1-855-712-5433 for assistance. You can reply STOP to unsubscribe at any time from SMS messages.