Swingler: May 2025

This party is open to anyone.

Theme: The Enchanted Lagoon: Mermaids, Selkies, Kraken, & Pirates

The sun is hot, the water’s warm, and something deliciously magical is stirring just beneath the surface…

Dive into the Enchanted Lagoon, where shimmer meets scandal, and mythical sea creatures aren’t the only ones making waves. Whether you’re a seductive mermaid, a sly selkie, a tentacle-toting kraken, or a roguish pirate with a wicked glint in your eye—this is your invitation to let loose and get wet.

🌊 Mermaid glam or pirate mischief—dress to impress, undress to swim, and bring your most enchanting summer sexiness. Think scales and skin, siren songs and stolen kisses, seafoam and sweat.
🌞 The water will be chill, the music hypnotic, and the vibes? Dripping.
🔥 Expect sun, splash, and just the right amount of scandal.

Whether you're here to tempt, tease, or tangle—this isn't just a pool party. It's a mythical escape into heat, hedonism, and high tides.

You bring the body and the magic. We’ll bring the sexy fun.

About Swinglers

Our parties are specifically kink-centered and inclusive. We focus on creating a friendly, super sex-positive welcoming space for the kinky, sexy and curious of all genders, relationship statuses, body types, orientations, and more. 

People often ask me, “How different is a Swingler than a regular night at THE HOUSE?” So I created an answer from a discussion we've had in the Swingler event channels:
 

If this is something you're interested in, read on. If not, no worries.

All Swingler attendees MUST be Mingler members in good standing and attend our online orientation OR be vetted by one of our event team—NO EXCEPTIONS!

Unless vetted personally by one of our event team members, all new Swinglers MUST post an introduction (in the Swingler intros channels), participate in the online orientation, and join the planning and conversation leading up to the event.

Want to know why? Click Here. 

$15 first-time Swingler attendees PAID NOW—you cannot be vetted if you don't pay AND message Nookie!
PLUS $30/person: bring cash to THE HOUSE in cash, night of. 
$15 goes to Mingler to help us buy equipment, put deposits down for other events, and to hire services for Mingler events.

ApplePay: 
nookie@datingkinky.com
CashApp: $themissnookie
PayPal: https://paypal.me/NookieNotes

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$30 goes to THE HOUSE to reserve the space for this party ONLY. Only employees of THE HOUSE will be there, aside from our party goers, to assure things go smoothly.

THE HOUSE provides hot dogs and hamburgers at 9pm and 11pm or 3 and 5pm, non-alcoholic drinks, and light snacks through the evening. Mingler provide vegetarian/vegan options. 

Sunday, May 25th at The House

1PM-7PM

Is this your first Swingler?
If this is your first Swingler, do you pledge to attend the online orientation and participate in the event channels?
Do you need vegetarian/vegan options?
I have read the information and rules below and I agree.