EVENT CAPPED! Wait list only. 

It's a VERY important date! 

Spring time! Gay frocks! Vibrant colors! Outrageous hats! Costumes! Kink!

We plan to have it all. 

Bring your sexy kinky selves dressed in your favorite Mad Hatter's tea party wear  wear to join all the delightful deviants for a night of sexy fun and play with the Mingler crew. 

Friday, April 14th at THE HOUSE in Raleigh

What Swingler (if any) have you attended before?
I have read the information and rules below and I agree.
$15 first-time Swingler attendees PAID NOW,
PLUS $30/person: bring cash to THE HOUSE in cash, night of. 

$15 goes to Mingler to help us buy equipment, put deposits down for other events, and to hire services for Mingler events (like we're catering this one).

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$30 goes to THE HOUSE to reserve the space for this party ONLY. Only employees of THE HOUSE will be there, aside from our party goers, to assure things go smoothly.

The Mingler is starting the evening off with a tea party. Light snacks, tea and fun drinks. 

THE HOUSE provides hotdogs and hamburgers at 11pm, non-alcoholic drinks, and light snacks through the evening. 
You will be required to fill out an agreement for THE HOUSE to enter. 

The agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, you are at our club of your own free will and not attending to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. The HOUSE does not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; they value your privacy and survive on discretion.

Please make sure that you bring a valid picture ID. No one will be allowed in the party without showing a picture ID. Please note that THE HOUSE DOES NOT make a copy of your ID or collect your personal information.

RULES & GUIDELINES

All Mingler Community Guidelines apply. 

See the ✅-community channel for a refresher. They apply to ALL Mingler events, anywhere, anytime. 

All Swingler attendees MUST be Mingler members in good standing for at least TWO weeks. 


All new Swinglers MUST post an introduction (in the Swingler intros channels), participate in the online orientation, and join the planning and conversation leading up to the event.

Want to know why? Click Here. 

Do I have to have sex or am I expected to be naked? 

Simply put, no. 

This is a sex-positive kink party. That means you can be as naked or as sex-involved (OR NOT) as you want. 

There is no pressure for you to do anything at all. If you like, you can just sit back and watch everything that goes on without being involved. No one will pressure you to do anything. You should not have anyone come up and try to touch you without your permission.

What are Touch-Me-Not ribbons? 

Purple ribbons work on the bicep of either arm during the party mean that you are not open to being approached for sexual or kinky play by anyone, unless you have specifically given them permission. You may also use this ribbon if you are not open to play with anyone outside of your current partnerships, or people you've made previous arrangements with. 

You may approach others, and you may remove your own ribbon at any time. 

This is a signal I've used at previous event and the venue I ran with Selene, to help people feel more comfortable. 

We will provide the ribbon. 

No means no!

If someone tells you no to something then respect their wishes and stop doing what they asked you to stop doing. Use some tact when you approach someone.

No smoking inside THE HOUSE.

You must go outside by the pool to smoke. We also must keep the party inside THE HOUSE and out by the pool. No outside in the front of the house. We don't want to bring no unnecessary attention to the party from our neighbors.

Sex & nudity are allowed in designated areas anytime. 

Have fun and enjoy yourselves at the party. If you would like to be naked, go naked. If you would like to have sex in public, then have sex at your table, on the dance floor, on the couch, or anywhere else that you like. Sex and nudity are allowed everywhere at THE HOUSE. If you have sex in the hot tub or pool make sure they swallow!! Do not make them dirty and slimy!

Absolutely no illegal drugs.

Please DO NOT bring any kind of illegal drugs to the party. The last thing that any of us want is to bring unwanted attention to the club. No sharing of prescription drugs is allowed.

No hard alcohol allowed. 

The only alcoholic beverages that you may bring are beer and wine products. If you are unsure of what is considered hard alcohol just remember this: If you can buy it at a grocery store, gas station, or convenience store then it is ok to bring with you. If you can only buy it at an ABC store then it is not allowed.

Excessive drinking will not be tolerated. 

We want you to have fun and enjoy the party but we do not want you falling down and getting hurt or hurting others. Some people have a tendency to say things to someone that they would not normally say and we do not want to hurt anyone's feelings or cause a problem. If you do drink make sure that you have a designated driver, we do not want anyone to leave our party under the influence of alcohol. If you can't drive then stay until you sober up. Or get a hotel if there isn't room for you to stay here overnight.

No fighting.

Before you come to THE HOUSE please talk to your partner and discuss what you both are comfortable with. Do not do something that you or your partner is uncomfortable with and causes an argument. If a discussion becomes heated, do not argue, scream, or yell in front of everyone. If you cannot settle your differences, please take it home; don't wait for us to ask you to leave. If we do, you wont be invited to the next party.

No still photos, video, or digital cameras allowed. 

We respect everyone's right to privacy. We do not take pictures of anyone and we do not allow cameras at the party. We also ask that no one use their cell phone camera to take pictures. If we see anyone taking pictures with their cell phone we will ask you to leave the party.

Do not touch without asking. 

There may be naked people walking around, scening, or having sex at the party.. If you see someone that you would like to play with you must ask first, DO NOT walk up to someone and just start touching them without asking first. Just because someone is naked and near you (even talking with you or flirting with you!) does not mean that they want to be touched. If people are having sex, ask first if it is okay to touch or play with them. DO NOT just start rubbing on someone, sticking your fingers, or placing your hands where they do not belong.

Doors open at 6:30pm for the tea party. Plan to arrive by 10:30.

The Tea Party begins at 7:30 and goes to 8:30pm. Be prepared to mix and mingle and get to know each other in your fanciest tea wear (fetish, formal, or simply outlandish—all are welcome)!

THE HOUSE usually locks the door at 10:30 pm. So if you can't make it by then, please make arrangements ahead of time.

Newbie fees are refundable until 14 days (2 weeks) prior to the event. 

After that, we are happy to put the fee towards another Swingler event.

You see, we close the registrations to new people 14 days before the event, so we have time to get y'all into the channels connecting, make sure you have gotten through our online orientation, and so on. We've saved that newbie spot for you.