We're taking over THE HOUSE with gender inclusive, kink-forward, consensual fun again.
This party is open to anyone.
That said, it's my birthday, and I'm stacking the deck and carefully curating the experience. The first round is open to people I invite personally and THEIR guests/first-timers. From there, the usual registration order will happen, and it probably won't take long for things to fill up—so move quickly.
Come dressed as your inner slut devine being (they might be one and the same...) or as one of your favorite deities from various cultures and history.
For my birthday, we're celebrating the fucking-fantasticness of each of us.
Have fun and enjoy yourselves at the party. If you would like to be naked, go naked. If you would like to have sex in public, then have sex at your table, on the dance floor, on the couch, or anywhere else that you like. Sex and nudity are allowed everywhere at THE HOUSE. If you have sex in the hot tub or pool make sure they swallow!! Do not make them dirty and slimy!
Please DO NOT bring any kind of illegal drugs to the party. The last thing that any of us want is to bring unwanted attention to the club. No sharing of prescription drugs is allowed.
The only alcoholic beverages that you may bring are beer and wine products. If you are unsure of what is considered hard alcohol just remember this: If you can buy it at a grocery store, gas station, or convenience store then it is ok to bring with you. If you can only buy it at an ABC store then it is not allowed.
We want you to have fun and enjoy the party but we do not want you falling down and getting hurt or hurting others. Some people have a tendency to say things to someone that they would not normally say and we do not want to hurt anyone's feelings or cause a problem. If you do drink make sure that you have a designated driver, we do not want anyone to leave our party under the influence of alcohol. If you can't drive then stay until you sober up. Or get a hotel if there isn't room for you to stay here overnight.
Before you come to THE HOUSE please talk to your partner and discuss what you both are comfortable with. Do not do something that you or your partner is uncomfortable with and causes an argument. If a discussion becomes heated, do not argue, scream, or yell in front of everyone. If you cannot settle your differences, please take it home; don't wait for us to ask you to leave. If we do, you wont be invited to the next party.
THE HOUSE is not just a venue, it's also a home. Disposable products and towels/sheets are made available. Do not open cabinets or go into private areas. If you need something, find Nookie or THE HOUSE staff.
We respect everyone's right to privacy.
Photos ARE allowed WITH DISCRETION. And I mean it. If any photos with faces that are not consenting show up anywhere, it's an automatic 1 year ban from Mingler and Swingler. Period, no exceptions. Take pics ONLY of you and your friends, and if someone else gets in, blur that shit! When you get your photos, if you're willing to share with Mingler for posting recaps of the fun here and/or on Fet, please reach out to me. smiles
There may be naked people walking around, scening, or having sex at the party.. If you see someone that you would like to play with you must ask first, DO NOT walk up to someone and just start touching them without asking first. Just because someone is naked and near you (even talking with you or flirting with you!) does not mean that they want to be touched. If people are having sex, ask first if it is okay to touch or play with them. DO NOT just start rubbing on someone, sticking your fingers, or placing your hands where they do not belong.
THE HOUSE usually locks the door at 10pm. So if you can't make it by then, please make arrangements ahead of time.
First-timer fees may be put towards another event.